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Heavenward

June 17, 2013 by katbiggie 17 Comments

Heavenward… our lanterns light the night. We touched our angels on this night.

lanterns to heaven

“If tears could build a stairway, and memories a lane, I’d walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.” ~unknown

Dusk began to fall and we gathered around the beautiful table. Dawn lovingly prepared a candle for each family represented.

9 families represented 20 angel babies. Barely known but deeply loved.

“Tonight we light this candle in memory of sweet Kathryn,” I choked out.

Kathryn's candle

“A family is a circle of love, not broken by a loss, but made stronger by the memories. We remember.”

And then we lit lanterns and watched together as they lifted to the Heavens. To our babies. All 20 of them.

This is my favorite shot of the whole night. The ceremony was the night before Father’s Day. We don’t often talk about how Father’s handle the loss of their babies. This picture captures the love of a daddy as he sends his lantern to his beautiful baby girl, reaching toward Heaven.

father's love lantern

Let the little children come to me, and do not stop them; for it is to such as these that the kingdom of heaven belongs. Matthew 19:14

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Comments

  1. another jennifer says

    June 17, 2013 at 10:08 pm

    What beautiful pictures, Alexa. That must have been an emotional ceremony. 9 families and 20 angel babies just brings me to tears.

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  2. Ilene says

    June 18, 2013 at 6:10 am

    This is so beautiful and so sad at the same time. I am sorry you have to do this but touched by the lovely way that you and those 9 other families chose to remember your loved ones. By lighting up the night. How perfect.

    Reply
  3. Janine Huldie says

    June 18, 2013 at 7:21 am

    Oh absolutely beautiful tribute to your little Kathryn. I am glad you got to do this in her memory and thank you for sharing the experience here with us, Alexa!!

    Reply
  4. Cobwebs, Cupcakes And Crayons says

    June 18, 2013 at 9:53 am

    What a beautiful, heartbreaking tribute…

    Reply
  5. The Dose of Reality says

    June 18, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    Stunningly beautiful…both the words and the photos. Thank you for sharing this with your readers. Wish we could give you a hug. :)-The Dose Girls

    Reply
  6. Chris Carter says

    June 19, 2013 at 2:19 pm

    This leaves me breathless….
    And speechless…

    Reply
  7. Lady Jennie says

    June 21, 2013 at 9:59 am

    Beautiful. I have a lump in my throat.

    Reply
    • katbiggie says

      June 21, 2013 at 9:50 pm

      Thank you Jennie!

      Reply
  8. abc mama says

    June 30, 2013 at 12:15 pm

    That was incredibly moving. What a beautiful tribute.

    Reply
  9. Leslie says

    June 30, 2013 at 4:10 pm

    This post brought tears to my eyes. Truly beautiful photos and what a lovely way to remember those beautiful angel babies.

    Thank you for linking up to Raising Imperfection!
    Make sure to check back on Friday to see if you were featured.
    Leslie
    http://www.violetimperfection.com

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    • katbiggie says

      June 30, 2013 at 8:06 pm

      Thank you so much. I appreciate that Leslie.

      Reply
  10. Lanaya | Raising Reagan says

    July 1, 2013 at 6:32 pm

    These lanterns are truly beautiful. What a wonderful way to remember your loved ones.

    Thank you for linking to Raising Imperfection.
    Please come back Friday to see if you were featured. 🙂

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    • Lanaya | Raising Reagan says

      July 5, 2013 at 11:26 am

      I featured you today over at Feature Fridays! Please feel free to grab the feature badge and place it on your blog!

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  11. Jennifer | The Deliberate Mom says

    July 5, 2013 at 5:12 pm

    This was heart-wrenching and beautiful. Blessings, peace, and love to you and yours.
    xoxo

    Reply

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