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The Promise

July 15, 2013 By katbiggie 20 Comments

Generally speaking, I try to stay away from controversial topics on my blog. I hate conflict, I can’t stand it when people are mean (especially to me!) and truth be told, I’m too tired (and busy!) to get all wrapped up in a big debate via comments.

However, I’m going to break my rules a little bit today.

The #gunsafety debate heats up again after #ZimmermanTrial verdict. The Brookings Essay #ThePromise is a must read:http://www.brookings.edu/ThePromise

ThePromise

I want to talk to you all about “The Promise: The Families of Sandy Hook and the Long Road to Gun Safety.” “The Promise” is an essay  put out by the Brookings Institute. It is an essay designed to further the talks on gun regulation and talks.

The Promise: The Families of Sandy Hook and the Long Road to Gun Safety

I want you to know about this essay. I really want you to go and read it. It provides a very non confrontational history on gun laws in our country, issues, shortfalls, and background on the gun debate. It is an exceptionally well written and informative piece.

No matter where you stand on the issue of gun control, I want you to try to completely suspend any and all beliefs you have and just READ what they would like you to know.

I am not opposed to guns. What I AM opposed to is the lack of control and safety measures, the trafficking of weapons, senseless violence, and the number of children that are killed in our country each year due to gunshots. According to data by the FBI, more than 3000 are killed each year by guns, and that is not even counting accidental deaths.

Gun violence is the number 2 killer of children between the ages of 2 and 19!

I am opposed to my children being in danger.  I am FOR making this country safer for all children.

As a mother, I decided this is something I want my voice to be heard about. I want my children to be safe at school, at the movie theater, at the mall, in the streets, driving down the street, on their school bus, or walking down the street, like Trayvon.

I was particularly struck by the section on whether tougher laws would have prevented Sandy Hook.

Adam Lanza was armed with two pistols, but his main weapon that day was a Bushmaster .223 caliber AR-15 assault rifle, which he loaded—and reloaded—with ten 30-round high-capacity magazines and twenty 20-round magazines; his 700 rounds were enough to kill everyone in the school. He fired 154 rounds in about four minutes. It was in the brief intervals when he was changing magazines that several children managed to escape. Had Lanza been forced to reload 16 times rather than six (as he would have with standard 10-round magazines), the Sandy Hook parents believe that many of their children would be alive today.

“Only those buying their guns from a licensed dealer must submit to a background check. Now, there are a lot of licensed dealers out there—59,000 at last count, which is almost five times the number of McDonalds franchises in America. But many buyers get their guns from unlicensed sellers, mostly at gun shows or through ads on the Internet. No one knows how many unlicensed sellers there are; their ranks vary from a guy selling off his dad’s hunting rifle to the illegal gun trafficker moving hundreds of weapons per month through online sales.”

“Don’t tell us what can’t be done, because we just aren’t prepared to hear that.”

Bennett documents the transformation of Sandy Hook Promise from a deeply sympathetic victim-advocacy organization into a force to be reckoned with in the modern gun debate, adept at using their moral authority as victims and survivors to impact state and national politics.

Why Is It So Hard for Us to Debate this Issue?

Though a distinct minority, this group has come to control the terms of the gun debate, exercising a power that vastly exceeds their numbers. (Speaking of the NRA)

If we are going to engage in a debate on gun control, we need to be informed on what that debate is actually about.

It’s NOT about taking guns away.

It’s NOT about making it incredibly difficult to get a gun (the background check system that registered, legal gun owners are using takes about 5 minutes to verify that you are not a prohibited buyer.)

It IS about making our country safer.

It IS about closing loopholes that allow criminals, mentally ill, terrorists, and other bad people to get their hands on guns.

It IS about JOINING THE DISCUSSION!

The gun lobby is STRONG people. But so are we, when we use our voices. And our voices need to let our elected officials know that they need to do what makes SENSE, not what lines their pockets. So if you think we need change – DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Moms Demand Action has made it SO EASY!)

Are you willing to make your voice heard?You can start by sharing this information:

Sample Tweets you can extrapolate to Facebook updates
@BrookingsInst new longform interactive essay #ThePromise explores the politics of #guns and #gunsafety in America: http://www.brookings.edu/

The #gunsafety debate heats up again after #ZimmermanTrial verdict. The Brookings Essay #ThePromise is a must read:http://www.brookings.edu/ThePromise

How can deaths due to gun violence be stopped? Read #ThePromise by @ThirdWayMatt for overview of #gunsafety debate http://www.brookings.edu/ThePromise

FACT: Gun-related deaths are projected to surpass auto-mobile related deaths in 2015. #MomsDemandAction for #GunSense

If you are still with me, God Bless You for reading this whole thing!

I have written about my feelings on gun control in the past, but not on this blog. I posted on my other blog, Democrat or Not? the post Cowards, Cowards about my disappointment in the Congress to pass a law on background checks, something over 90% of the country supported!

I also wrote a brief post about the number of shootings that have happened in my region of the country since Sandy Hook, which you can read about here.

And I wrote two posts about the amazing group Moms Demand Action in a two part post: Biting the Bullet and Biting the Bullet part two.

I wrote a post on BlogHer that was featured, entitled Moms Stand Up Against Gun Violence – Action Week.

Most of these are simply informational posts, trying to spread the word about the activities that Moms Demand Action is up to. (So much good stuff!) If you are interested in joining the conversation, please go read and learn.

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Alexa B, who blogs as "Kat Biggie" is a wife, mother, and writer. She has three children and one in heaven. She recently self published a book entitled "Sunshine After the Storm: A Survival Guide for the Grieving Mother" which is available on Amazon. She blogs about life after the loss of one of her twin daughters to TTTS, motherhood, all things parenting, advocacy, grief support and social good.

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Comments

  1. Janine Huldie says

    July 15, 2013 at 7:50 am

    Alexa, I couldn’t read or click on the links at the end at of the post, because your ads were superimposed. I will try to return a bit later and see if I can do this, because I truly do believe this is such a very important message and you are right something needs to be done. I am afraid for my girls and will do anything to keep my own kids safe, too. Thank you seriously for sharing!
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    • katbiggie says

      July 15, 2013 at 8:21 am

      Thanks Janine. I don’t know what is going on. For now, I’ve put those links here:

      http://katbiggie.com/my-writing/

      Reply
  2. Ilene says

    July 15, 2013 at 7:54 am

    Such an insanely important topic. Thank you for standing up on this and helping to spread the word. We NEED to have this conversation!

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    • katbiggie says

      July 15, 2013 at 12:56 pm

      Thank you Ilene. Thanks for sharing it on twitter. I hope you’ll also go check out the Moms Demand Action page!

      Reply
  3. The Dose of Reality says

    July 15, 2013 at 8:45 am

    You may absolutely count on our support on this! Excellent blog post. We are thrilled to support this cause, as it is such an important one. Just changing the laws on high-capacity magazines ALONE would make such a difference. No one needs to be fire that many bullets in a minute. You have tapped into a very hot button issue for us.-The Dose Girls
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    • katbiggie says

      July 15, 2013 at 12:57 pm

      So glad to have you on board. We need VOICES!

      Reply
  4. Chris Carter says

    July 15, 2013 at 9:47 am

    Yes! I am so glad you used your voice in this critical and controversial topic. It’s a big ol’ mess. I can’t wait to read it… heading over now.
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    • katbiggie says

      July 15, 2013 at 12:57 pm

      Thanks Chris. Hope you found it as informative as I did!

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  5. Mrs. Pancakes says

    July 15, 2013 at 2:29 pm

    it;s so important when we can use our blogs to shed light on important topics!

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  6. Tamara says

    July 15, 2013 at 3:23 pm

    I’m with you – I tend not to be too controversial. I’m like that in person too – always trying to diffuse tension and make others happy. I realize that if everyone was like me all the time, we wouldn’t get very far in our discussions and changes. I’m with you on this topic. I think the verdict has made normally shy-about-big-issues bloggers let loose with their feelings.

    I hope it helps.
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  7. Tracy@CrazyAsNormal says

    July 15, 2013 at 3:26 pm

    Posting this on my Gene Rosen page right now – Awesome post. 🙂
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  8. another jennifer says

    July 15, 2013 at 3:35 pm

    I just tweeted, and I’m going to dig into the essay a little later. (Heading out to pick up G at camp.) This is such an important topic. And so timely right now. This is when we need to have our voices heard! Thank you for this info, Alexa.
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  9. KC @ The Real Thing with the Coake Family says

    July 15, 2013 at 8:15 pm

    Thanks for all the information. I hope that someday we can get some real change in this area for our country.
    Take care,
    KC
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  10. Victoria from the Busy House Big Heart says

    July 15, 2013 at 11:38 pm

    Gun control is definitely a polarizing debate topic, even in Canada where everyone is polite (That’s not true haha)
    I know there are some topics that I will never “compromise” on, but gun control has to be one of those things.
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  11. Eli@coachdaddy says

    July 17, 2013 at 10:34 am

    I would so vote you into office somewhere right now. I love this approach, because it’s somewhere in the middle, but so crucial: We just want a safer world for our kids. I’ll tweet.
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    • katbiggie says

      July 17, 2013 at 6:46 pm

      Awww… that’s such a nice compliment! Thanks for sharing it. Yes, safe environment for our children is the most important objective!

      Reply
  12. Crystal says

    July 21, 2013 at 11:48 am

    You can count on my support as well. We have to take appropriate steps to stop these tragedies. So well-written, Kat!
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  13. Katie Vyktoriah says

    July 25, 2013 at 11:57 am

    Thank you for this article. It is something that weighs on my mind a lot. I grew up with both parents as ex-USAF and my dad was Deputy Sheriff and then in the Border Patrol as I grew up. I was raised around guns. We learned gun safety before we were done teething. I shot my first gun when I was about 5 years old.

    Yet I do not own a gun as an adult, and I don’t think I ever will. The fact that gun violence is number 2 scares me more than I can ever say. I think this is important information to get out there. thank you for sharing.
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